WARNING: This post is a bit of a
(literal) shit-show. If the idea of expelling solid waste from the rear end of
the human body is offensive to you, it's best if you just stop reading.
Now that the squeamish folk are gone, we can
dive right into it! It may seem strange that my first post with the “Culture”
tag* is about pooping, but using the bathroom is an essential part of any
culture. Any human who has ever eaten anything knows that eventually, something
has to come out the other end. And what comes out is generally unpleasant.
Therefore, every human society needs to figure out a way to dispose of human
waste in efficient and predictable ways.
What do I mean by predictable ways? Imagine
for a moment how confusing it would be if every family had a different way of
dealing with human waste. Let's say that your house has the standard US set-up:
a chair-sized toilet and a sink with some soap next to it. Simple enough. But,
if you come over to my house and “feel a call of nature,” I might lead you to a
shed in the back yard where you just do your business on the dirt floor and
then use a shovel to spread it across our flower bed (you know, for
fertilizer). And then, you start a new job downtown at the Hancock. As part of
the tour they show you the facilities, which consist of one small room on the
very top level with a hole in the floor. Beneath this hole is a chute that goes
all the way down to the ground floor. Obviously, this would be a mess of
confusion about proper bathroom etiquette and habits. Not to mention the health
problems that would come up if everyone in the Hancock tower had to share one
bathroom - you might have to hold it all day!
So the need for a basic bathroom procedure
inside a culture is obvious, even if you hadn't previously considered it. “But
Benjamin,” you might be saying, “what could be so different about using the
bathroom in Peru? Do they not have plumbing?” I am happy to say that we do have
plumbing in our house, and that plumbing is not exactly a rare thing here. But
there are obvious differences.
What's different in Peruvian bathrooms?
First, toilet paper doesn't go in the
toilet. I know, the word “toilet” is right there in the name, but actually in
Peru it's called papel higiénico or hygienic paper. Toilet paper goes in
the little trash can next to the toilet. As far as I have been able to find
out, this is because the plumbing isn't as good as the plumbing in the States.
That's about it for pooping in a home in Peru, but what about when you're out
and you can't wait for the comfort of your own toilet seat?
You have to find a public bathroom. There
are some general public bathrooms that you have to pay a small amount to use.
These are only likely to be in tourist areas. But for the most part, just as in
the US, you will have to enter a business like a restaurant and use their
facilities. Simple enough, right? Just pay for the cheapest thing on the menu
and then rush off to relieve the pressure in your bowels. Coming from US
pooping culture, you are most likely expecting to follow this general
procedure:
1.
enter the bathroom
2.
step into the stall
3.
lock the stall door
4.
pull your pants down
5.
sit on the toilet seat
6.
do your business
7.
wipe your butt
8.
throw the toilet paper in the
trash can (because now you know not to flush. You're so worldly!)
9.
stand up
10.
put your pants back on
11.
unlock the stall door
12.
wash your hands with soap and
water in the sink
13.
dry your hands with a paper
towel or maybe one of those blow machines
14.
leave the bathroom feeling much
relieved
Wow. Who knew there were so many steps to
pooping in a restaurant bathroom? You deserve a firm congratulatory handshake
for having successfully completed such a complicated operation. But if you're
in Peru, I won't be the one to shake your hand; because, unless someone tips
you off, your restaurant poop procedure will look something more like this:
1.
enter the bathroom
2.
step into the stall
3.
lock the stall door
4.
pull your pants down
5.
sit on the toilet seat
6.
do your business
7.
reach for toilet paper
8.
realize there is NO TOILET
PAPER
9.
start to panic
10. try to think of a good solution
11. REALLY PANIC!
12. I leave this step up to your imagination. Do you use your bare
hands? Do you look in the trash can and try to pick the least used piece of
toilet paper? Do you forgo wiping and resolve to clean your butt really well
during your shower tonight? The possibilities are limited, and all of them, no
matter how creative you are, are gross.
13. Still feeling grossed out by your decision, you unlock the stall
door.
14. you hope to wash your hands well in the sink, but there's also NO
SOAP
15. rinse hands and scrub them hard in the cold water (hot generally
isn't an option)
16. dry your hands with a paper towel or maybe one of those blow
machines
17. leave the bathroom feeling disgusted
I had this exact
experience. I won't tell you what I did at step 12.
That's right, soap
is rare in the Peruvian public bathrooms that I have used (best to keep hand
sanitizer with you), and toilet paper is almost guaranteed not to be there.
Some bathrooms have a person who stands outside with a roll and sells you a
hefty amount of toilet paper for what is, at least to the person who really
needs to poop and wants to wipe their butt properly, a good price. But even the
toilet paper people are pretty rare. The fact of the matter is that if you
think you'll need toilet paper during the course of your outing, you should
bring some with you. There are a few exceptional establishments that do provide
toilet paper for their customers. In my experience, the only places that do
this are McDonald's and Starbucks.
Dry Bathrooms
As I mentioned in a
previous post, my host family's neighborhood doesn't have running water. They
have a baño seco (dry bathroom). It's a hole in the ground covered by a
small shack. Their dry bathroom is actually a good example of what I mean when
I say that there is a pooping culture in every society. There is a small
plastic bag next inside the dry bathroom for used toilet paper. It seems to me
that, since there are no pipes to clog up, it wouldn't really matter if we
dropped the paper into the hole along with the poop. My guess is that disposing
of used toilet paper separately from excrement is such a normal part of the
Peruvian pooping culture that it is continued even in the baño seco.
Here's the basic
procedure for using the baño seco:
1.
enter the baño seco
2.
pull the tarp across the
doorway so that it doesn't blow open and expose you to the world
3.
pull your pants down
4.
squat down over the hole
5.
do your business
6.
wipe your butt
7.
throw toilet paper in the
little bag
8.
stand up
9.
put your pants back on
10. undo the tarp
11. step outside and cross the yard to the little spigot (the water
comes from a large water barrel) where you can wash your hands with soap and
water.
12. cross the yard back to the house feeling much relieved
Pooping while you
squat is actually really easy (assuming you can squat). Some argue that it's
the more natural or “correct” way to poop since humans evolved long before we
developed toilets. It's a pooping experience that I recommend to everyone to
try at least twice (the first time it may all seem new and strange, so you need
a second time to feel the full experience).
In case you are
wondering how much it costs to install a dry bathroom like the one my host
family uses (maybe you're trying to reduce your water use for the year 2015 and
realize that 1.6 gallons is a lot of water to wash away every time you pee),
the answer is that it costs time instead of money. They dug their own hole. The
ground here is very hard, so digging involves two steps – first loosening up
the earth with a pick-axe, and second digging the dirt with a shovel. I had planned to post pictures of the process, but the internet is moving too slowly to upload them. That's just how it goes sometimes.
When it is
completed, this hole will be 4 meters deep. In the above pictures
it's a bit deeper than 1 meter. The current baño seco is 2 meters deep,
and has lasted for 4 years (though it's not retired yet). So it seems that 1
meter will give you a bit over 2 years of use. I don't know if your
municipality will allow you to dig a giant hole to hold the next 8 years of
your poop, but feel free to try.
So there you have
it: pooping in Peru is a different experience that requires different cultural
expectations. Hopefully now you know more about how to poop if you every come to
Peru, and maybe you look at your own pooping experience and bathroom culture in
a new way. I think we've all learned something spiritually, emotionally, and gastro-intestinely.
*In case you're
wondering where the tags I'm talking about are, they are at the bottom left of
each post next to the word “etiqueta.”
Thanks for the detailed descriptions of these cultural differences for one of our most basic human functions/needs. Maybe you can develop the habit of carrying a page of a newspaper, magazine, flyer, letter, etc. in your pocket - at all times - so you'll have paper whenever you need it. Maybe instead of writing on your blog I should write letters -- on thin airmail stationery....
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